A woman went on a date that started with butterflies and heavy flirting. By the look of things, there was potential for more dates in the future, but the next day the woman was faced with the most shocking text message.
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The woman began her story with excitement, detailing her anticipation upon matching with a seemingly ideal suitor. “I matched with a guy who seemed lovely and ticked all the boxes. I couldn’t wait to meet him,” she wrote.
Their meeting started strong, with the date greeting her with a kiss and telling her how beautiful she looked. It was panning out to be the perfect date as the couple spoke the entire night. “After several hours of flirtation, he invited me back to his place for ‘coffee’,” she shared.
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The Facebook user was tempted to take up his offer, but she decided against it. The man assured her he was okay with her turning him down. But little did she know, this decision would be met with a long text of feedback filled with cruel words.
The following day, a text message popped on her phone screen, delivering a blow that left her in disbelief. “Hey. I think you’re lovely and I could definitely see you in my future. However, to get there I feel I need to address something. While you have a beautiful face, you are physically way bigger than any girl I would let myself date. I would even go as far as saying obese,” the text read.
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From there, the man addressed her decision to decline his coffee offer. He told her she needed to change her old-fashioned views on sexuality and how disappointed he was that she had turned him down. “I’d expect more from a woman who is single in her late 20s,” wrote the man.
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She still had more dates following her horror story, but she was still scared because, after each date, she hoped not to wake up to a text of extensive feedback. But people in the comment sections were absolutely shocked at the man’s offensive demands that he thinly veiled as suggestions for self-improvement.
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It was shocking to Facebook commenters that the man even thought that sending a message like that was sensible. “Imagine living your life thinking this kind of behavior is ok. I just wow.” wrote a shocked commenter. “Who raised this man???” added another netizen.
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However, netizens applauded her for not going on a second date with him. People believed she did herself a favor and dodged a possible emotionally abusive relationship with a man who would have done anything to build his ego.